Choosing a divorce attorney is one of the most important decisions you’ll make in a divorce case. The right lawyer will protect your interests in divorce, child custody, property division, spousal support, and domestic violence restraining orders, helping you navigate California’s legal system effectively.
1) Look for Experience in San Diego Family Law
Choose a lawyer who regularly practices in San Diego County and knows the local judges, family law departments, and filing procedures. Ask how many cases like yours they’ve handled—such as those involving children, complex assets, or spousal support. If your matter involves safety concerns, verify experience with DVROs.
2) Confirm Credentials & Professional Reputation
- Verify the attorney is licensed and in good standing with the State Bar of California.
- Look for specialized experience in California family law, memberships, and peer reviews.
- Read testimonials and case results (outcomes depend on facts of each case).
3) Ask the Right Questions
- What is your approach? Litigation, mediation, or collaborative methods.
- How will you handle financial disclosures and discovery?
- What is your billing structure? Retainer, hourly rates, flat-fee options.
- What’s the strategy for child custody & visitation and child support?
- Do you have experience with DVROs?
4) Assess Communication & Compatibility
You should feel heard and informed. Ask how often you’ll receive updates and by what method.A good lawyer explains California procedures in plain English and aligns strategy with your goals for divorce, custody, and finances.
5) Check Costs, Fees & Hidden Charges
Request a written fee agreement. Clarify the retainer, hourly rates, and potential additional costs (appraisers, custody evaluators, court reporters).Ask whether the attorney aims to resolve issues through negotiation or expects litigation—trials cost more.
6) Red Flags to Avoid
- Guaranteed outcomes (courts don’t guarantee results).
- Poor responsiveness during the consultation.
- Vague strategy or lack of transparency about fees.
- Pressure to sign immediately without review time.
FAQs
How much does a divorce attorney cost in San Diego?
Fees vary by complexity and attorney. Always request a written fee agreement explaining retainers, hourly rates, and extra costs.
Do I need an attorney if my ex agrees to divorce terms?
Even in uncontested cases, a lawyer ensures proper disclosures, enforceable support orders, and accurate paperwork.
What if I can’t afford a private attorney?
Consider the San Diego Family Law Facilitator’s Office, Legal Aid Society of San Diego, and Volunteer Lawyer Program. Some attorneys offer payment plans.
When should I switch attorneys?
If communication breaks down, trust is lost, or preparation is inadequate, switching may be needed. Consider timing and costs.
References & Resources
- California Courts — Self-help Divorce
- San Diego Superior Court — Family
- California Family Code
- California State Bar — Attorney Search
Disclaimer: Informational only, not legal advice. Every case is unique. Consult an attorney for your situation.
