At SD Law Center, we know that few legal issues are more emotionally charged than child custody and visitation. Whether you’re a parent navigating a divorce, separation, or a custody dispute outside of marriage, your relationship with your child is paramount. Our San Diego-based family law attorneys are committed to protecting your parental rights while always putting the child’s best interests first—in alignment with California law.
California courts determine custody and visitation based on the “best interest of the child” standard, as set forth in California Family Code § 3011 and § 3020. This includes evaluating the health, safety, and welfare of the child, the nature of the child’s relationship with each parent, and the presence of any abuse or substance misuse.
The two main forms of custody are:
Both legal and physical custody can be joint (shared between both parents) or sole (awarded to one parent only).
Even when one parent is granted sole physical custody, the non-custodial parent is typically entitled to reasonable visitation, unless such visitation would be detrimental to the child.
Visitation types include:
Under Family Code § 3040, courts prefer that parents share joint legal custody unless there is a strong reason not to. A parenting plan (also known as a custody and visitation agreement) outlines each parent’s responsibilities and time-sharing schedule.
A complete parenting plan should address:
Parenting plans that are clear, consistent, and focused on the child’s well-being are more likely to be approved and enforced by the court.
California law is firmly centered on the best interests of the child. Courts consider a number of factors including:
Before a court hearing, most counties in California, including San Diego, require mandatory Child Custody Recommending Counseling (CCRC), also known as family court services mediation. This process provides a chance for parents to reach a mutual agreement with the help of a court-appointed mediator.
If mediation is unsuccessful, the mediator will make a recommendation to the judge, which may carry significant weight in court decisions.
If a custodial parent wants to relocate with the child to another county, state, or country, they must file a move-away request. California courts assess the potential impact on the child and the feasibility of preserving the non-moving parent’s relationship with the child.
These cases are complex and often contentious. Our attorneys have extensive experience handling move-away disputes and presenting persuasive arguments under the LaMusga factors.
Custody orders are not set in stone. If circumstances change substantially, either parent can petition the court to modify custody or visitation orders.
Common reasons for modification include:
When a parent violates a court-ordered custody or visitation agreement, the other parent may seek enforcement through the court. Remedies may include:
The law supports prompt enforcement to protect both parental rights and the child’s best interests.
Sadly, some custody battles involve false accusations or parental alienation. Our attorneys are skilled in presenting evidence, requesting psychological evaluations when appropriate, and seeking protective orders against bad-faith litigation tactics.
Can my child choose which parent to live with? California courts may consider the child’s preference if they are of sufficient age and maturity, usually around 14 or older, under Family Code § 3042.
What if the other parent doesn’t follow the custody order? You can request court enforcement. Judges may impose penalties, award make-up time, or modify the order.
Can I get custody if I was never married to the other parent? Yes. Parental rights are not contingent upon marriage. The court will establish paternity, if necessary, and issue custody orders.
Is mediation confidential? Yes, but in San Diego County, the mediator will submit a recommendation to the judge if parents don’t reach an agreement.
If you are facing a custody or visitation matter, do not go through it alone. Let our team of experienced child custody lawyers in San Diego protect your relationship with your child.